Beaches, Feet, Fear, Blessings and Freedom

You know all those pictures you see on Facebook and other social media sites of someone’s feet with the pool or the ocean in the background? You know the ones that kind of or really make you jealous that you are not enjoying your down time in a similar fashion? Well, this post does not have any of those. It does have Continue reading Beaches, Feet, Fear, Blessings and Freedom

Worst Year Ever?

Do you think there is something you can specifically do in the next week that will make your personal life, your family life and your business life all worse?

Do you think there is something you can specifically do in the next week that will make your personal life, your family life and your business life all better?

Do you believe that the choice is yours?

Do you believe that every choice has an end result?

Do you believe making the right choice is your responsibility?

If you answered these questions honestly you likely answered them affirmatively. Using that as my assumption, here is what you just said, Continue reading Worst Year Ever?

Top 5 Posts from 2015 + All the Rest

Happy, Happy, HappyAs 2016 begins I wanted thank all who have stopped by and read, commented, and shared any of the words I have posted here on this blog in 2015 so here it is…

Thank You!

I do appreciate your time and input and hope to be able to post something that might interest you again in 2016. Looking back it is always good to see what interested most readers last year, what worked and what didn’t. Based on total number of views here are the top five most popular Peculiar Perspective posts of 2015. Continue reading Top 5 Posts from 2015 + All the Rest

You do really care and it does matter

question-markWe are in the car, ready to go eat and the question is asked, “Where do you want to go? What do you want to eat?” Ever been there?

Does this sound familiar to you?

If you have and your family is anything like mine you will hear the following answers. “I don’t care” and “It doesn’t matter to me.”

If you are anything like me, and believe words mean things, then you are thinking to yourself, well ok, then I get to choose so you start naming options and, just to see if it does really matter and if anyone does really care you say, “How about McDonald’s?”

(McDonald’s is never our first choice but when on the road you make choices of convenience sometimes and it is often used to make a point as in this situation.)

From somewhere in the back of the care you hear, “No. I don’t like McDonald’s.” or “Anywhere but McDonald’s.”

Not McDonald’s

I  know for our family McDonald’s will not be in the mix for sometime since two of us got food poisoning from a McDonald’s on the way to our vacation beach destination a couple of years ago allowing us to “enjoy” an ambulance ride and spend some quality time in the Savannah Memorial Hospital, and the rest of our vacation in bed, but that is another story for another day.

Back to the subject

So, naturally, my response is “So you do really care and it does matter.” Has that ever happened in your family?

It is not a big deal, just curious to know if it is just me and our family or if this is a common occurrence that happens around the world.

I have been guilty of the “I don’t care” answer myself when I know I really do. Why do we do that and not really say what we mean? Is it a family version of political correctness or just the family members being considerate of other family members and allowing someone else to make the choice or decision?

I don’t know.

What do you think?

Until next time…

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A Peculiar Perspective begins!

Zemanta Related Posts ThumbnailWelcome to my blog called Peculiar Perspective.  More about the title I chose in a moment.

“THE END!”  This is how Zig Ziglar begins his most published and read book, which also happens to be my favorite See You At The Top.  This was an effective and attention grabbing way to start this book, which gave me a new perspective on life and changed my life for the better.  I am glad I didn’t stop reading there.

Steven Covey tells us in The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People to

“Begin with the end in mind” and “Seek first to understand, Then to be understood.”

His points are valid when taken in the context they are given.

I understand the points these authors are making in their books but if interpreted or used in the wrong way, or just taken out of context, one could use these as excuses for never getting started whether that be in writing a blog, changing jobs, exercising more, losing weight or running for president.  I have been doing that for too long in regards to writing and that has delayed the debut of this blog but that ends today!

(Wait for applause here…)

Thank you, thank you.  Please be seated.  Thank you for that warm welcome to the blogoshpere. 🙂

Peculiar by definition means odd, strange, weird, unusual, irregular, abnormal, unconventional, curious, or atypical, to name a few synonyms.  I have been referred to as all of the above at one time or another.  Some have told me I have a warped sense of humor.  I don’t understand that.  To me everyone else is warped and I am normal.  God called the Israelites a “peculiar people”.  He also called them “stiff-necked” (or stubborn) on multiple occasions but I will not go there right now.

Perspective is just someone, anyone’s viewpoint, outlook, perception or point of view.  Everyone has one of these and since everyone includes me, I do too.

Peculiar Perspective is what I chose as my blog title since I am a peculiar person, either by God’s or man’s definition, and I do have a perspective or point of view.  I am of the belief that my peculiar perspective on things is similar to many others and really is not peculiar at all but is what was known in an earlier time as common sense.  As this blog develops over time this theory will either be validated or disproved.  Time will tell.

I really do not know what this blog is going to look like as it develops.  I have a lot of ideas rattling around in my brain and this may take many different directions before it becomes focused or it may never become focused on one theme or topic.  I have been on this earth for a little over half a century (that sounds like a long time when quantified that way) so I have many experiences and lessons learned that should be appropriate, interesting and helpful to someone.

I am also not going to try to pin down a specific frequency for new posts.  I expect it will be weekly or maybe 2-3 times a week to start and then will be adjusted based on how that goes.

Jeff Goins says in You Are A Writer (So Start Acting Like One),

“You don’t have to have it all figured out yet. You just need to begin. You’ll figure out the rest as you go.”

That is what I am doing, beginning and figuring it out as I go.

Jon Acuff says in his new book START: Punch Fear in the Face, Escape Average and Do Work That Matters ,

“the only line that you can control is the START line.”

Zig Ziglar often said, 

“You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great.”

That doesn’t mean my blog is going to be great.  That is my intention.  However, I will never know unless I start.

So, I am starting right now, right here, today.  No more questions to get answered, books or blogs to read on writing or blogging, over-analysis of whether I should or should not write and what I should or should not write about.  No more trying to make it “perfect” before I publish it.  My delaying tactics are done.  This blog has begun.  Hey, that rhymes. 🙂

Thank you for joining me on this journey into odd logic, or common sense, from a somewhat atypical angle.

Until next time…

Originally published on Peculiar Perspective on 03/08/2013